The Gift of a Thank-You Note

Thank you notes

These made my day!

It really was a small thing I did.  Girl Scout cookie time approached and the little girls seeped out of their campfire circles.  Unfortunately, my good guy and I are trying to reduce our sugar intake.  He is a diabetic and I am too old to mess with my system any more.  But who can resist those sweet little faces?  And cookies?  My goodness!  What fun while helping a super cause.

My great-niece lives in the Detroit area, and she too, is a girl scout.  So when we received the annual request, I really wanted to support her.  I have another niece in Detroit who never had the chance to be a girl scout.  This special woman is developmentally delayed. Today, this niece lives with a group of women with similar challenges.  It was only logical to take my cookie budget and give it to people who could really enjoy the treat.  I sent off a small check to my great-niece and forgot about it.

That was over a month ago.

Saturday, I collected my mail. Bill, bill, junk, junk — hey! Wait a minute.  A big brown envelope was hand addressed to my good guy and me.  I didn’t recognize the return address because it mentioned some house name.

When I got inside, I opened that envelop first.  Inside I found a smiley sunshine, flowers, and “thank you” all brightly colored on separate pieces of paper.  This thank you project probably took my niece and her friends a good half-hour to do.  And I haven’t received anything so beautiful in a long time.

Thank you notes seem to have gone out of vogue along with regular letters by post.  Yet, only yesterday, I read a wonderful article by a Los Angeles therapist about the importance of writing a heartfelt note to someone every now and then.  She put together “mood boosting interventions” for a health, fitness and beauty expo last spring, to help people write a thank you note to someone, and they sold like hot cakes.

“Really go all out in expressing your gratitude. Doing this might boost your mood because research has shown that focusing on gratitude, even for a very brief time, can increase feelings of happiness,” said Nadja Geipert in her Psychology Today article.

So you want to be happy? Who are you grateful to today?  What would you like to say thanks for? Jot them a note.  It doesn’t have to be fancy–it just needs to be there.

The thank you notes I received from my niece and her friends lifted my spirits for the day, and even now I smile as I look on these beautiful gifts.

Thank you DH women!



6 thoughts on “The Gift of a Thank-You Note

    • Hi Linda! I get these kind of ideas whenever I think of you. Throughout my life you are the person who has taken action on good thoughts and made great things happen. No one will ever forget your welcome home sign for the parents when Mrs. Cass babysat. Thanks for your kind thoughts, and your energtic spirit. Love you!

  1. I love sending and receiving snail mail… birthday cards, thank you notes, etc… and I have my kids send out the old fashioned thank you cards as well. Like you said, it’s pretty much a lost art. I even had a long time friend tell me it was not necessary to send her cards, but I told her I like to and I like to receive them and as a result we still send them back and forth. Ecards don’t come close! So, keep spreading the word! Maybe it will come back even a little. 🙂

    • Thanks, Karen! Literacy begins at home, and the “ancient art” of personal notes is a great way to keep literacy alive in our country. Did you know about 82% of adults in this country read one book or less a YEAR outside of required reading?

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